BOOKS LIE!!!

kapag may nababasa ba kayong libro, yung tipong mala- chicken soup for the soul o kaya iba pang klase ng inspirational books na-iinspire ba talaga kayo o tipong nauuto din kayo ng mga pinagsasabe ng author at pakiramdam niyo eh talagang mababago isang aspeto ng buhay niyo pag inapply niyo yung ilan sa mga sinasabe nila...hmmm..i bet ganon nga minsan..kasi minsan na din ako nauto ng libro...College ako nun eh.third yr yata.kaka "cool off" lang namin ng "BF" ko..at syempre apektado..natural naman siguro yun.Sakto habang senti sa bahay may nakita akong libro (nweiz, do u know that when citing a book title, you should not use the word "entitled" as in the book is "entitled") just an info.. ok it was titled "men are from mars, women are from venus." it discusses the guys' and gals' differences and explains in such a convincing manner that each of us should accept those differences for a good "relationship" to last. ok in other words, binasa ko nga..dahil about relationships daw.dun ko nabasa na sa isang relationship, dadating tlga yung time na he seems to be getting cold and acting like he wanted some "space" between the two of you. for sure yung iba din sukang suka na sa term na "space" pagdating sa relasyon.para kasing ang connotation na nun eh break up na.pero hinde..since nauto nga ako ng librong yun..naniwala ako na yung space na yun na tinutukoy sa book at narinig ko din sa bf ko eh natural lang..ayon nga dun sa lintek na book na yun, men are sometimes like "rubber band".. time comes that they try to pull themselves away but after a while they would stretch back to normal. goma daw sila. pag stretch m mo at binatawan, babalik at babalik sa dati. but the more you stretch it while gripping it, lalong may tendency na mapatid ang goma. at ang lalake daw pag ayaw ka kausapin,wag daw pilitin kse baka yun yung time na he just wanted to stay in his "cave"...in short, gustong mapag-isa. (uso yata sa kanila meditation) and so on and so forth...dame pa ideas dun na pinaniwalaan ko.so while cool off ng bf, i tried to convince myself na he was just passing through that kind of stage..so i should not force him to come back..i tried to put our situation in place with the ideas of the book. i have to say, it helped me to feel better and to see things in a better perspective.But as i said earlier, nauto lang pala ako ng book na yun..It got good points, but then it didn't justify the fact that my boyfriend didnt come back anymore.. Everything in the book was so perfectly explained and every example perfectly elaborated so it couldn't be hard for you to correlate the situations to your own experiences...But then, life's like that. Our life doesn't depend on what we read or what a book says. You just have to be always prepared that even if the book helped you, in a way, to feel good for a period of time, it could also give you false hopes in the end when you expected too much from it.